Singing to the choir

January 5, 2010

2009 proved to be a great year in many ways although there was the dark cloud of the Badman review and resulting fall out hanging over us.

We continue to have a dialogue with our MP, sign petitions and open letters, add our voices to those who are shouting on our behalf whilst trying not to let this threat take over our day to day life. And of course extracting every single drip of educational value to be had in learning about government, politics, parliament and how you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone.

We had great holidays, times with friends, new experiences, learnt new skills, found new passions and enjoyed life to the full. Some of what we set out to do happened, some didn’t, some was lost along the way because more interesting things came along instead. There were parties, new friends, old friends, laughter in the sunshine, splashing in the puddles and throwing snowballs at each other. When men in suits tried to take away our freedoms we blew bubbles in their faces, shouted loud enough for the media to listen, sat outside parliament with our banners and cluttered up their foyer in our rainbow clothes.

 

We grew fruit and vegetables while our chickens gave us eggs to eat and hatched new chickens too. This year we’ll grow even more.

So, what else is on the agenda for us in 2010? More of the same is the short answer - I know what I’m hoping the year will bring, I know what plans I have made but who can tell which way the road is going to turn once it gets out of sight? 

Monster and Teeny plan to continue with their regular groups - Wildlife Explorers, Swimming lessons, Sea Scouts, Brownies, Badgers, Young Archaeologists Club. They are going to a monthly Home Ed book club and we’re looking into circus skills, art lessons and possibly some music tuition - all in a skills swap type capacity with friends rather than formal, paid for lessons.

We have several camping trips and day trips already planned throughout the year aswell as several holidays. We’re looking forward to more parties and get togethers with friends.

Specific requests include:

Monster - learn to ride a bike, improve reading and writing through practise, he wants to attend Badger camp again (his first time away from home was a week long camping trip with Badgers in 2009, he got loads out of it and is keen to do it again this year). He wants to spend a night or two camped out in his own little tent and learn more bushcraft / forest skills / survival stuff. He’d like to learn more about animation and visit any museums or exhibitions that would help with that.

Teeny - still wants to see dolphins! We have another summer trip planned to hopefully make that happen this year (we failed last year despite holidaying in classic dolphin spotting locations and going on a dolphin spotting boat trip - we did see seals which she said were almost as good!). She’d also like to see elephants. She would like to visit a jungle, but along with her desire to stay in the ice hotel near the north pole she appreciates this might be a dream she has to realise under her own steam in years to come! ;) Teeny would also like to learn to ride a bike, improve her swimming and hatch ducklings.

I love their hopes and dreams, I love how they mix practical, academic, whimsical, achieveable and utterly outlandish. I adore that all of these feel within reach to them, I am proud that together we manage to achieve so many of the things they want to do. I love the fact that my autonomous, non-tested, no-pressure children set their own goals, give thought to the direction they want their lives to take, put effort into coming up with ideas and are heavily responsible in making them happen. 

Bit ‘o maffs

December 9, 2009

I seem to have taken part in several conversations about maths recently. One was with a very dear friend who is also a maths tutor when I shared how I had suddenly got my head round 7 x 8. It’s the single most asked times table line I think, one I always forgot when not being chanted with 6 x 8 said first (in the same was as Teeny still can’t start counting in the late teens, she needs to have started from one to get her momentum). I realised that if I think of 5 x 8 which I *know* is 40 plus 2 x 8 which I *know* is 16 and add the two together it is a sum that means something to me rather than a line from a rhyme which means nothing.

 I know there is value in mnemonics - I probably still couldn’t recite the colours or the rainbow without thinking of poor Richard of York, tell you how many days are in April without thinking of ‘30 days hath November’ or indeed ever be sure of how to spell receipt with the old ‘i before e…’ rule but I think there is a danger in relying too heavily on being able to recite words without actually corresponding them to numbers.

I’ve very deliberately not even talked about ‘maths’ as a concept to Monster and Teeny. I know far too many adults who are maths-phobic and claim to be ‘crap at maths’ despite using it in practical application every day without even thinking about it. I know my own ability to work out percentages was massively improved when working in a job with 20% staff discount, my ability to work out number bonds right up to 100 got great when I worked on tills and had to work out change, along with just knowing which coins to grab to make up the right amount in the smallest number of coins. Now I work in a library my skills at leaping plus 21 is pretty good to know what date to set stamps for books being due back.

Money, I think for most children, is a great manipulative. Time is another - from how many days til my birthday to how long til lunchtime. Does this mean that in an autonomous education there are going to be gaping holes maths-wise? Possibly. I can see there is every change pythagorus may never just crop up in day to day life but I think there is also a lot of space for crossovers of concepts to happen which for me is a good thing. I don’t see why ratios, percentages, decimals and fractions should be seperate. If you don’t need to do pages of sums for the sake of it, or divide all of this mathsiness stuff into little boxes surely the issue of ‘getting fractions but not understanding algebra’ won’t be so much of a problem?

I suspect that the ‘tricks’ of times by ten means stick another zero on the end without it actually meaning anything won’t happen here. Yesterday Teeny lost a tooth, which round here means she wakes up with a pound coin under her pillow the next morning. I overheard her and Monster chatting about counterfeiting coins which is something we talked about a while ago and whether you could ‘turn a penny into a pound’. Monster said ‘you can turn a penny into a pound by adding nine tenths of the pound and nine of the pennies to the first penny. Which seemed like a very convulted way of saying it but demonstrated he has grasped fractions with his 9/10 and presumably units, tens and hundreds too. He then said there must be one thousand pennies in ten pounds which they both ‘whoa’ d at for a while as that seems loads and finally he clarified with me that 10+10+10+10+10+10+10+10+10+10 is the same as 10x10. 

I think DS games, board games, toys like lego and geomags which involve counting pieces to construct and general life with the need to use numeracy to exist means Maths holds no fear for them, as and when life dictates they need to add another ability to their numeracy to work something out they learn how to do it either by trial and error or asking. At some point if they do need to get a maths qualification I have no doubt it would be pretty straightforward to pull all of that practical application experience together, realise that all of those different ideas have names and rules attached and can be seperated out and categorised but that basically it’s all just moving numbers about in slightly different sizes and methods.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    

Lord Lucas in da house - ah yeah!

November 27, 2009

http://www.publications.parliament.uk/pa/ld200910/ldhansrd/text/91126-0011.htm#09112630000780

Lord Lucas: My Lords, it is a great pleasure to follow that speech, and I think that I agree with every part of it, especially the bit saying that we have the right to spend our own money on ourselves and have fun, so our children had better learn to work for a living. As I get older I agree with that more and more, although I do not think I did 40 years ago.

I am going to devote my speech to the home education part of the education Bill-although I cannot call it that because the word "education" has been expunged from every Bill and from the title of the department. I shall refer to it as the schools Bill. Several clauses are devoted to the regulation of home education; that is, people who educate their children at home. This part of the Bill is ill thought-out and unjustified, and I hope very much that we will delete it. In its current form it is a skeleton exposing home educators and their children to the unknown because so much will depend on how the regulations are written. Nothing in it secures their rights as home educators to look after their children in the way they see best. There is an unfortunate conflation of education and welfare which makes the business of improving or looking after the education of these children much harder.

There is no recognition in the Bill of the curricula and forms of education which are commonly used in home education, particularly in autonomous education. Instead, the impact assessment refers to the exemplar curricula which will be produced by the QCDA. In other words, everyone is to be corralled into state education and not allowed to go their own way. There is no reference to the training of local authority staff, which is recognised to be one of the major deficiencies in the current arrangements. There is no proper arrangement for independent appeal when a local authority decides that a person may not home educate. There is a skeleton in the Bill, but it is a skeleton that could be filled out in almost any way.

In this country, we have long had a duty as parents to educate our children and a right to decide how they should be educated. Many of us choose to entrust the state with their education-but that is us entrusting the state with our duty and us exercising our right to choose. The Bill turns that on his head. The arrangement here is that you cannot home educate unless you get the prior permission of the local authority, which has wide grounds for refusing. It can object in any way to your plans to educate your child. It can object and refuse you permission to home educate if you do not allow someone from the local education authority four hours of unaccompanied access to your child every year. Would we contemplate allowing that for our children under any circumstances? What right have these people to do that to home-educated children when there is no real cause for concern?

We are considering a section of the Bill which will cost £20 million per annum, which is about £1,000 per home-educated child. These children receive no money to help pay the costs of examinations; no money to buy textbooks; no money to buy materials; no money and no tuition to help them over difficulties in education. Now the Government can find £1,000 for each of these children-and will spend it on auditing them. Not one penny will go to help the children; it will all go on auditing them. What have these people done to deserve that?

Four separate communities are bundled together under the title of home education. First, there are those who opt for what might properly be called "elective home education". They are people who have decided, as a matter of principle, that they will pursue an educational philosophy which is not available from the state. Most of this is autonomous education; most of it is a form of education which does not involve curricula or planning but involves going on a journey with children which results in education. This is, of its nature, foreign to many school-based systems, but it has proved immensely successful.

The second group might be called "the despairing". These are people whose children have been bullied at school to the point where they will no longer go to school; or those who have children with special educational needs which are not being properly catered for and who have therefore decided to turn their lives upside down and educate their children themselves. These people do society a great deal of good by doing so.

The third group consists of the Travellers, who are bundled in here as home educators, which many of them are. Finally, there is what one might call the
 

"year 11" children-those who have always been trouble; who have always truanted; whose truanting has got worse and worse; whose parents are not in control of them either; and who in the last year or so of school just go home and sit watching television. They are classed as "home education" because it is a convenient way for the local authority to classify them.

We do not have a coherent pattern that can be used to produce a coherent set of statistics. All this has been conflated with a worry-I associate it with the NSPCC; perhaps it comes from elsewhere-that a lot of abuse is somehow going on in the home education community. Page 90 of the impact assessment quotes the NSPCC:

"We are concerned that the child’s safety and welfare should be paramount and that there is nothing in the current guidance or framework that would prevent children from being abused by people who may claim to be home educators".

That sentence applies equally to all of us who are bringing up children. Local authorities are not conducting any supervision of me as a parent to make sure that I am not abusing my children. "That is a bad thing; something must be done about it"; that is what is being said about home-educating families-on the basis of what?

This is probably the first time that I have paid attention to a Bill’s impact assessment, but it is an immensely useful document. It sets out the rationale of the Bill and the concerns that underlie the Government’s perceived need to introduce this section. It states that local authorities estimate that,

    "8% of ‘home educated’ children are receiving no education at all and 20% are not receiving a suitable education".

That would be concerning if it were true, but it is not.

To understand what is going wrong here, one needs to understand the process that the Government have gone through, with a rushed assessment of the situation under Graham Badman and three successive rounds of applications to local authorities for data, each of them seemingly compiled by a different team because they are none of them consistent with each other. None of them seems to be compiled by people who have an understanding of home education or of local authority practices. Different local authorities respond to the same questions on different bases, understanding them in different ways, providing different kinds of answers and following different rules. From that, the Government have derived a set of high-level statistics such as the one that I have just quoted.

Before Prorogation, I asked a couple of questions of the Minister on this matter. The department refused to answer, saying that it could not provide me with the underlying data because they were confidential. I shall ask similar questions again now. If I receive that same answer, we shall be off to see the Leader of the House, because I consider it deeply disrespectful of this House. These data are there and are available. The Minister may have a team looking at the data. On the other side are 10,000 intelligent, angry, committed home-educating parents finding out the same information. All the information is in the public domain, but how have the Government got their high-level results from it?

Let us look at the 8 per cent who are receiving no education at all. Local education authorities have a duty to make sure that children are receiving a suitable
 

education. A figure of 8 per cent would mean an astonishing level of dereliction. A huge number of local authorities would be in complete breach of their requirements and not using their well established powers to bring children into education. Of course, that is not the case at all. Part of it appears to be a deliberate misreading of the figures provided by local authorities; part of it is rolling in a chunk of the Traveller population, who are already separately provided for by local authorities which have well understood the requirements of them but have included them in the "receiving no education" category. Part of it is the "year 11" problem, which is local authorities’ own problem resulting from things going on in their own schools. When you get down to the residual question of how many properly home-educated children are not being educated, it is somewhere well under 1 per cent-if indeed one can identify any numbers at all.

 

Dear Ed Balls and the DCSF, No, thank you.

October 15, 2009

Here is what I owe my children:

  • Unconditional love. Always and forever. The knowlegde that nothing they can ever do will ever change the way I feel about them. I will always take their side, support their cause, fight their corner. Noone else owes them this but it is most certainly their right from me.
  • To provide for their most basic needs; to feed them, clothe them, shelter them, to protect them from harm.
  • To listen to them, always. From their first cries as moments old infants when all they could do was articulate hunger, discomfort or pain, to knowing when to hold their tiny hand in mine so they could toddle, to knowing when the time was right to let go so they could walk alone. To recognising an interest and a passsion and introducing new ideas, facilitating their learning, answering their questions, to one day toasting their independance as they move out of my care, meet their life partner, become parents themselves, climb a mountain, sail a sea, hell flip a burger if that’s what they’ve chosen to do! I will hear them.
  • To teach them, not necessarily right from wrong but how to make that differentiation for themselves. To give them choices and help them see how to use them. To show them they have wings, tell them they can fly and to stand back while they spread them, then cheer them on from below.

Here is what you owe my children:

  • To allow me to do all of the above. Use the funds that come from MY taxes to provide the services to pick up the slack where I cannot. Give me doctors, nurses, hospitals, schools and teachers, law and justice, refuse collection, library services, social services, pensions, healthcare, defence, safe roads, decent public transport, street lights, clean parks and beaches, free museums. Where I need them I will use them, where I don’t I will not. Allow me to make those choices.

The children who are vulnerable worry us all. I cry to think of children not being properly cared for, being abused, being neglected, being failed by both their parents and by you. I feel sick at the thought of just one child suffering and knowing the fate of all those high profile cases of children failed by Social Services. Known to them, visited by them, reported on by them but not saved by them.

 

The children who are not getting an education make me so very sad. For them, for their parents who trusted you to deliver when they delegated to your schools to educate their children. The children coming out the other end of years of state education lacking not just formal qualifications but basic literacy and numeracy skills. The children tested by your exams,  sat in classrooms run by your teachers but not educated by them.

Your models do not work for all who need them. You are failing. This is where time, funds, energy, resources, reviews and revolutions are required. You are not achieving all you set out to do.

I on the other hand am. I am meeting all my targets despite having my bar set really very high. My model is working. Here is my evidence, now move along, there is nothing to see here and I believe you have plenty to keep you busy elsewhere.

 

Waiting for the axe to fall

September 22, 2009

Monster and Teeny have never been to school or nursery. We’ve never hidden our Home Ed status when directly asked but we’re not ‘known’ either. When the forms came for school places I chucked them in the recycling. A reminder came for Monster, cautioning that if we didn’t return them we might not get a place in our favoured school. As we didn’t want a place in any school I recycled that too. If at any point we’d been asked to clarify exactly what we were doing with regard to the children’s education then we’d have replied that we were making private arrangements, but noone ever asked so we never told.

I remember myself asking incredulously about testing, checking, someone making sure we were doing it properly when we first started researching Home Ed, which just goes to show how indoctrinated I had been in the ‘nanny knows best’ mentality of the UK. It seemed amazing that we were allowed to do this and didn’t have to ask anyone’s permission. Whilst I am now a very long, very enlightened way from that thinking (I’m choosing to blame it on having a newborn and a toddler at the time ;) ) I have always thought it would be naive to imagine we will retain such freedom all the way to Teeny reaching 18 and the end of formal education age. I never gave much thought to how things might change however and enjoyed the freedom of allowing Monster and Teeny to discover  how Home Education would best suit them and through a journey of discovery, constant reevaluation, conversation and experimentation we are achieving just that.

 

In our opinion.

 

Which is where it begins to get scary really. Because up to this point it has only been our opinion that counted. For me, it still is and that is precisely as it should be. But thanks to Ed Balls’ Home Education review and Graham Badman’s report and recommendations our opinion is looking likely to count for less and less.

I firmly believe that all of life is experimental. I believe parenting is incredibly experimental and the many, many manuals, approaches and pieces of advice available on the subject back this up really. There is no set way to rear a child because children are people and people are individuals. There is nature and nurture at play, a whole load of demographic variables, different experiences, fate, accident, health, wealth, intellect and much, much more which makes up the sum total of who we are at the end of our childhood, let alone at the end of our lives. As such education should be the same, a voyage of discovery, predominantly self-directed, never ending, constantly tangenting and evolving depending on all those external influences I just mentioned.

This works for us. Monster and Teeny are stimulated, interested, engaged, curious, busy, motivated, open to any and all new experience, full of questions and the ability to find answers to them. For them, for us and for pretty much everyone who comes across us our Home Ed is deemed to be a success. Very subjective I know, but then isn’t everything in life? Subjective and relative - wealth, health, happiness, intellect, appearance, education. Is that not what makes humans so very fascinating and interesting? Our diversity and differences? Our varied perspective and opinions? Our diverse experiences and dreams?

Fingers crossed the Select Committee will debunk the Badman report and see all that is wrong with it. Fingers crossed the sterling work of so many of the Home Educators I am proud to be one of will enlighten the government and maybe the public at large that we’re doing fine and don’t need to have any of the ridiculous and downright terrifying restrictions and regulations enforced on us. May the picnics, the mass lobby, the letters and visits to our MPs, the press coverage, the bloggers, the fab work of HEYC and all of the other amazing positives that have come about as a result of this will do their job and we’ll be left alone to continue doing what we do, answering to ourselves and making it work for us, in our opinion.

If not I guess we just fight and deal with one point at a time. In theory there is no need to register, they can simply merge their databases and by elimination put us on a register as Home Educators. If not, if we need to queue up somewhere to add our names what will happen if we don’t? Will we be prosecuted? Will our children be taken away into care? Will they be forced into schools? How will this be managed? If they can’t create the register without us registering how will they find us anyway? What punishment will be levied for not complying and how will they find all those additional school places anyway?

If they want to visit us in our homes will they need search warrants? On what legal basis will they have right of entry? What if we’re not home? How will they find enough staff and get them properly trained to come and visit us all anyway? A quick google shows there are about 20,000 schools in the UK (private and state) which even at conservative estimates of HE families means there are more homes in which children are educated than schools in this country - that’s a hell of a lot of homes to get round.

If we submit an annual plan to be held accountable to who will read it? How will they measure us against it? We cannot and will not forward plan our lives in that way. I will detail what we’ve learnt this past year and state that we plan more of the same for the coming year. That will surely suffice given the richness and breadth and balance of a year in our lives and all the opportunities it offers. 

As an optimist I have to believe that this madness will be halted before it goes further. I have to believe that no matter how crazy or unreasonable the hoops we asked to jump through become there will be a way through them while retaining what is important to us. We are resouceful, creative people with imagination and passion for what we believe in, we will find the way to navigate a new path through, even if the landscape becomes steeper, harder and stonier.

Not back to school…

September 21, 2009

My favourite season is always the one we’re just about to go into and the changing of the seasons is a perpetual source of wonder and inspiration for me. I love the newness of spring - the buds of flowers, the hatching eggs of birds, the lambs, the bluebells. I love the long evenings of summer, the camping, the ourdoorsyness of the season, I love the colours of autumn, the smell of bonfires in the air and that crunchy sound of leaves under your feet. In winter I adore the cold brightness of it, the excitement of Christmas and the dark evenings snuggled up round the fire. I love the puddle splashing opportunities of rain, the warmth on your back of sunshine. The climate in the UK and the very definite feelings of the four seasons is one of my favourite things about living in this country.

 

But today, today was for me what our lifestyle choices are all about. Yes it was September, late September at that but the sun shone bright enough to give me slight sunburn and instead of being at school or work we spent the morning on the beach. We were with friends and while I drank tea and put the world to rights with some of my favourite people in the world Monster and Teeny frolicked in the sea, built experimental sea defences and made up games with some of their favourite people in the world. It was blissful, idyllic and made us all wonder quite why anyone would choose to be doing anything else really.

So not back to school, but loving every minute of our own version of the start of a new term.

 

But if I disregard my fickle loving everything for it’s own sake-ness I would probably have to nominate September for my favourite month. It’s the month I married in, the month I became a mother in so there are always celebrations. As a child I liked the start of the new school year, the new stationery, shiny new shoes, as a Home Educator I like everyone else going back to school and freeing up the musuems, the parks, the beaches for us lucky few who have no better place to be on a Monday morning.

 

Our weeks do have a certain amount of term time structure to them - evening activities four out of five weekdays for Monster or Teeny or both which we always enjoy the summer holiday break from and always enjoy the September return to. Most years we have a family holiday in September and this year was no exception; we rounded off what has been a fab summers camping with a last week in our favourite campsite and were joined by some of our very best friends too.

We had a local Not Back to School Picnic in line with other Home Educators around the country. We loved being part of this event, for me it cemented all that is great about what we do - locally it involved children of all ages playing together in the park, having fun, while the adults sat and chatted. We are from all sorts of parenting / religious philosophies, various socio-economic groups from the family who are paying for private tuition to ensure their children get the very best education money can buy to the traveller who lives in a truck and HEs her small daughter, the very school-at-home to the totally free range and autonomous. This was replicated up and down the country with people coming together to celebrate our right to Home Educate, defend it against the threats facing these freedoms and prove, yet again, that we are not hidden, unsocialised people who have stepped outside of society.

 

 

Home Education - why and how?

September 4, 2009

I’ve been reading back over some of my previous posts on here recently. Around this time last year I did a ’school report’ style round up of what Monster and Teeny had been up to and I have previously talked a fair bit about what we do and how we do it so if you are a new visitor here then please do have a dig through the archives. I have good intentions to fix something in the sidebar to make it easier to find the posts on certain topics but I have quite a long list with the title ‘good intentions’ so it may not happen any time soon! :lol:

 

So, How and Why then? I think I’ll go with ‘why’ first.

I’ve written a bit about how we found out about Home Education here. I think our approach to life has always been try something, see if it works and if it doesn’t try something else. I’ve never wanted to make a choice I can’t later change and I’d always rather regret doing something than regret not doing it. Starting our Home Ed journey was in reaction to knowing pre-school would be the wrong choice for Monster when he was 3, continuing it has been a series of choices at various stages about it remaining the right path for both Monster and Teeny, aswell as my husband and I. I’ve written a bit about choices here so I won’t rehash that either.

I began with fairly clear ideas about how I would Home Educate, but over the last 6 years I’ve come to realise that actually I don’t really Home Educate at all, I’m simply one of the members of a Home Educating family and there is a difference. Our initial why has long since been lost in the passage of time and now our why is far more about this post, along with this one.

Before I ever had children I was always insistent that I would celebrate them as individuals, love them for who they were not who I wanted them to be, help them find out what made them happy. Home Education seems the logical extension of that for us, which leads me rather nicely to How?

Again, I’ve already written essays on this before so I’ll direct you first to learning, learning everywhere which I wrote 18 months ago but is still a fair representation of how our days pan out. Go and teach yourselves is a pretty good account of how a day could go around here and in terms of planning ahead and where my role is in all of this (before you start assuming I simply drink tea, chat to friends or spend all my time on the internet ;) ) is there in Hopes and Dreams which I wrote at the beginning of this year and is as close to orgo-planning as you’ll ever find me being. Unfortunately none of it requires me buying stationery - I feel this could be my greatest failing as a Home Educator ;) .

 

 

Forever blowing bubbles…

August 12, 2009

Just incase any of you have missed this on various lists…

There is a plan for a national Not Back to School Picnic event with bubble blowing at 2pm throughout the UK on Wednesday 16th September.

A yahoo group has been set up to coordinate and plan events across the UK and we already have several confirmed planned events in parks across the country.

The plan is to celebrate not going back to school, to create a united front across the country, raise awareness of Home Ed generally and of course continue to protest about the review.

To see if anything has been set up in your area or indeed to start setting one up (’old hands’ of the Brighton Bubble event around to help with planning/ contacting media etc.) please come and join the group at <a href="http://groups.yahoo.com/group/notbacktoschoolpicnic/">notbacktoschoolpicnic</a>

Coming out…

August 7, 2009

I’ve always been fairly cautious about revealing too much about my family and I on my public blog. I have various reasons for this but protecting the children’s anonymity, avoiding clashes between my private and working life and simply not laying out all out life on a plate for anyone who happens to stumble across it to pick over are among those reasons.

This week I have compromised some of my anonymity by participating in a local event to raise awareness of Home Education and the review. It was with full consent of Monster and Teeny obviously but for us this was a fight worth risking privacy for at this stage in the hopes it would safeguard our whole lifestyle.

We were part of the group of Home Educators blowing bubbles, handing out leaflets and talking to passers by and the media at large about what we do, why we do it and how it is under threat.

We were featured on the local and regional news, the radio, the local press, linked to on youtube, facebook, national Home Ed lists, blogs and more. 

As a result of the media coverage a dialogue happened with my parents who are now if not wholly supportive at least better informed about Home Ed. There has been the inevitable backlash of negative comments, which whilst I’d love to discount as nutters do worry me. But not nearly as much as the apathy and sense of ‘what will be will be’ or ‘I’m sure you’re doing it right but what about all those people who aren’t’.

If you read this blog, if you know a Home Educator, if you’ve heard anything at all about the review. If you are a parent, if you place any value at all on the rights of the individual in this country, freedom and liberty, please, please, please join our voices in fighting against the rules and regulations the government want to impose upon us against our will.

Nothing to hide?

June 15, 2009

If you’ve nothing to hide then you’ve nothing to be worried about?

We don’t have anything to hide but we do have plenty to protect and that’s what we’ll be fighting for. 

To protect against registration.

Registers are for keeping tabs on people - sex offenders, children in a classroom or for those who wish to access a service - doctors, dentists. We are neither of these. 

To protect against annual review of remaining on the register

We don’t want to be on it in the first place so we certainly don’t need to be jumping through any hoops to remain on it.

To protect against visits to our home

Maybe Home Educated is a misleading term in as much as actually home is simply the base for our living and we do all our learning through living. But we also do a lot of living in other places where learning happens too. Unlike school where learning is restricted to a desk in a classroom with the odd field trip we know no restrictions and learning takes places in the car, on the train or bus, walking down the road, at the beach, the park, a camping field, at a friends’ house, in the library, the museums, the art galleries, the cinema, the theatre, the allotment, the supermarket, the woods…. you name it, we learn there. Visits to our home are unnecessary, unwanted and an invasion of our privacy.

To protect against yearly plans to be held accountable to

We often don’t know what we’re going to do today until after it’s happened, we certainly can’t plan what we’ll learn. My children’s only goals should be self made and involve satisfying their own curiosity and finding the answers to their own questions. It’s almost impossible to quantify what they have learnt on a daily or even hourly basis even after it’s happened let alone plan it in advance. Yet learn they do in a diverse, broad, balanced and ’suitable’ way gaining knowledge and insight with every forward step.

One of my biggest criticisms of school is the prescriptiveness of it all, the way education is ‘delivered to’ rather than ‘learnt by’.One does not need an educator in order to be educated. I would not dare to presume what my children need to learn, in what order and by when and I will protect them from having that enforced upon them.

To protect against unsupervised questionning by strangers

This is possibly the most shocking suggestion of the lot and certainly the one that makes me feel the most protective of my children. Quite aside from all of the safety and welfare issues the very thought of allowing access to my children without me there to be assessed, questioned or judged is a terrifying one. It suggests that either I or my children have done something wrong and need to be interviewed seperately in the style of co-criminals under police investigation.

To protect from a minimum standard

How to even set a minimum standard? Whilst there is no denying literacy and numeracy are important schools which deliver these areas as a matter of priority fail to achieve a consistent end result and then how is it measured, how is it proved?

In schools one of the ways of proving it is testing the children. This seems to work if the objective is filling children’s heads with the National Curriculum and then testing to see how much of it has gone in. Is very effective in checking a standard bare minimum level, quality control departments in factories all around the country probably use similar methods; set a standard, test to see it’s being met, weed out any falling below the standard. It’s fairly irrelevant whether I think that works for the children in our schools. I most passionately believe it wouldn’t work for the children who aren’t.

There is mention made of SEN (Special Educational Needs). In my opinion every single individual has special educational needs - special and individual and unique to them. As adults we concede this and many of us are pretty good at identifying them and working in that way. But we forget that during our most intense period of learning, our childhood, we don’t get to work that way. This is not about being on a spectrum, having a diagnosis or requiring funding, it’s about being able to learn in our own way, at our own pace, things that we want to learn. A tailor made education, individual to the learner and driven by them.

We don’t have anything to hide but we have much to be frightened of. We have to protect our freedom, our right of choice over our childrens’ education and our right to be viewed as innocent until proven guilty rather than being made to prove our own innocence of crimes there is no evidence to suggest we have even committed.

 

 

Monster (9)
and Teeny (7)
have never been to school or nursery. We began to think about Home Education about 7 years ago and have gradually combined education with our day to day life. For now we follow no structure, no curriculum and go wherever life - and our imagination - leads us. This blog is an occassional record of where life has led us....